If you are a family member or friend who is providing unpaid care for an older loved one, you probably feel frustrated and overwhelmed at times. If so, you are hardly alone. Your commitment to providing care is certainly admirable. You may, however, reach a point at which you need help in the form of a geriatric care manager. An Oklahoma City elder law attorney at Parman & Easterday explains how a geriatric care manager can help you provide the best possible care for your loved one.
Caregiver Facts and Figures
If you are the primary caregiver for an elderly parent (or other loved one), it may feel as though you are going through something that no one else could possibly understand. At times, you likely feel frustrated, resentful, lonely, and just plain exhausted. As the following facts and figures show, you are not alone:
- 65.7 millioninformal and family caregivers provide care to someone who is ill, disabled, oraged in the U.S.
- Even among themost severely disabled older persons living in the community, about two-thirdsrely solely on family members and other informal help, often resulting in greatstrain for the family caregivers.
- Lost income andbenefits over a caregiver’s lifetime are estimated to range from a total of$283,716 for men to $324,044 for women, or an average of $303,880.30.
- 15 millionAmericans provide unpaid care for people suffering from Alzheimer’s each year.
- In 2016, unpaidcaregivers provided over 18 billion hours of care, valued at over 230 billiondollars – and those figures are expected to increase every year for theforeseeable future.
What Is a Geriatric Care Manager?
A Geriatric Care Manager offers support to adult children who need outside assistance with care and personal management for their aging parents, whether they live close by or far away. Often, children are still raising their own families or are dedicated to careers that make it difficult to provide consistent care to aging parents without help. Also referred to as Care Management or Aging Care Management, geriatric care managers are particularly useful in helping aging seniors find their way through the maze of long-term care services and issues. Here is a list of what a care manager might do:
- Assess the leveland type of care needed and develop a care plan
- Take steps tostart the care plan and keep it functioning
- Make sure careis received in a safe and disability friendly environment
- Resolve familyconflicts and other family issues relating to long term care
- Become anadvocate for the care recipient and the family caregiver
- Manage care fora loved one for out-of-town families
- Conduct ongoingassessments to monitor and implement changes in care
- Oversee anddirect care provided at home
- Coordinate theefforts of key support systems
- Provide personalcounseling
- Help withMedicaid qualification and application
- Arrange forservices of legal and financial advisors
- Manage aconservatorship for a care recipient
- Provideassistance with placement in assisted living facilities or nursing homes
- Monitor the careof a family member in a nursing home or in assisted living
- Assist with themonitoring of medications
- Find appropriatesolutions to avoid a crisis
- Coordinatemedical appointments and medical information
- Providetransportation to medical appointments
- Assist familiesin positive decision making
- Develop longrange plans for older loved ones not now needing care
How Do I Find a Geriatric Care Manager?
If you think a geriatric care manager might be of help to you, to find one a good place to start is on the National Care Planning Council’s website. The NCPC provides a listing service for families looking for care managers. There is typically a fee for an initial assessment.
Contact Oklahoma City Elder Law Attorney
For additional information, please join us for an upcoming FREE seminar. If you have additional questions or concerns about elder law issues, contact an experienced Oklahoma City elder law attorney at Parman & Easterday by calling 405-843-6100 to schedule your appointment today.
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Since founding Parman & Easterday in 1985, Larry has led over 1,000 free, community-service education programs and helped more than 10,000 Oklahoma families go from putting off their estate plan to getting it done. His goal for every client is the same: to become the person their family calls "the one who took care of everything."
Larry is the author of three books: The Straight Shooter's Guide to Estate Planning; Estate Planning Basics; and Guiding Those Left Behind in Oklahoma. He served as Oklahoma's Secretary of State and Secretary of Commerce, and his firm is the only member of the American Academy of Estate Planning Attorneys in the state.
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