Often, caregivers put their needs and lives on the back-burner, which leads to burn out, stress, anxiety, depression, grief, resentment, anger, guilt, deteriorating health, becoming overwhelmed, and the possibility of these effects increasing over time. In fact, several studies show that caregivers have a higher mortality risk than the loved ones they care for. Although caring for an aging loved one can be extremely difficult, there are tools available to help caregivers make the right decisions while also taking care of themselves.
How to Find Relief
While there are some tasks you will want to handle yourself, there may come a time when you need assistance. There are many places you can turn for relief, including:
- Another family member or friend
- Home health care
- Services such as Meals on Wheels
At some point, you may realize you have done everything you can but are unable to provide a high level of care. As difficult as it will be, placing your loved one in a nursing home may be in his or her best interest.
As a caregiver, there are many things you can do to make life easier on yourself as well as your loved one. Contact our law firm for more information regarding legal and financial planning.
Taking care of yourself
Are you tired? Burnt out? Emotionally distressed? Even resentful of the situation? These feelings will only increase over time, especially if you have no relief. Medicaid can help pay for different types of care, depending on your need and circumstances:
- In-Home Care – this provides assistance during the day, as the primary caregiver remains in charge on the evenings and weekends. You will not relinquish all responsibilities.
- Adult Day Care – provides occasional and/or scheduled breaks for the caregiver, and can also be scheduled around work and vacation schedules.
- Nursing or Assisted Living Care – Full-time relief for the caregiver.
Legal planning can provide the following:
If your loved one is mentally incapacitated, putting a disability plan in place is important in the event they are unable to make decisions for themselves in the future. This will help you avoid the court process in an attempt to be named the legal guardian.
If you are concerned about the cost of quality care, consider the following benefits of legal planning:
- Emergency Medicaid planning to discuss the availability of government benefits
- Ability to make decisions that can preserve some of your assets and pay for long-term health care
- In the event of nursing home care in the future, planning with a Medicaid Trust can safeguard your assets if completed and funded prior to the look back period
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