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Home » Wills and Trusts » Questions to Ask Yourself When Creating a Will

Questions to Ask Yourself When Creating a Will

May 21, 2020 by Larry Parman, Estate Planning Attorney, Author, Speaker

Creating a Will

Despite acknowledging the need for one, over half of all Americans do not have even a simple Last Will and Testament in place. If you are among them, there is no time like the present to get started on your Will. Toward that end, the Oklahoma City estate planning attorneys at Parman & Easterday offer questions to ask yourself when creating a Will.

Last Will and Testament Basics

Before you start thinking about creating your Will, it helps to understand some Will basics. A Last Will and Testament is a legal document that allows the Testator (the person executing the document) to make gifts of estate assets that will be fulfilled at the time of the Testator’s death. You can distribute all, or just some, of your estate using a Will. A Will is considered public record once it is submitted to probate after your death. Therefore, anyone may view the provisions of your Will. Probate is the legal process that follows your death and is used to ensure that your estate assets are identified, located, and eventually transferred to the intended beneficiaries and/or heirs of your estate.

Questions to Consider When Creating Your Will

  1. What are my assets and liabilities?  You probably have a rough idea what your net worth is; however, when it comes to creating a Will you need to know exactly what you own and what you owe. Making detailed lists, and keeping them with your Will, also makes the probate of your estate much easier when the time comes.
  2. Who do I want to inherit from my estate? This one may be obvious and not require much thought; however, there are some beneficiaries that people commonly do not think about one their own. Charities, for example, such as your church, may be included. Your family pet is another one that you may not have considered.
  3. Who is the best person to appoint as my Executor? Do not make the common mistake of filling in the name of your spouse as the Executor of your estate without considering if he/she is the best choice. The Executor of your Will fulfills an important role in the probate of your estate that includes numerous, and varied, duties and responsibilities. Ideally, your Executor will have a legal and/or financial background. Appointing the wrong person to be your Executor can cause a delay in the probate of your estate and/or increased costs related to the probate process.
  4. Do I need to nominate a Guardian for my minor children? If you are the parent of young children, do not forget to nominate a Guardian for them when you create your Will because your Will is the only opportunity you have to let a judge know who you would want to take over the care of your minor child(ren) if a Guardian is ever needed. Even if you have yet to have a child, it is still a good idea to include a Guardian in your Will if there is a possibility you will become a parent in the future. 
  5. Do I need an estate planning attorney to help me with my Will? Resist the temptation to use a DIY Will form you found on the internet. The time and money you think you will save will be meaningless to your loved ones when they are forced to spend time and money litigating your Will because of the mistakes and/or omissions in the DIY form you used.

Contact an Oklahoma City Estate Planning Attorney

For additional information, please join us for an upcoming FREE seminar. If you have questions or concerns about creating your Will, contactan experienced Oklahoma City estate planning attorney at Parman & Easterday by calling 405-843-6100 to schedule your appointment today.

If I haven’t yet amassed a significant amount of assets, do I still need a Will?

Yes. Every adult can benefit from having a Will in place because without one, the state decides what happens to the assets you do own if something happens to you.

Is a Will or a trust better for distributing my estate assets?

You should consult with your estate planning attorney to determine which one is right for you; however, one reason people often use a trust is that trust assets bypass probate.

Do I need to update my Will after I create it?

Yes. You should conduct routine reviews of your Will every few years to determine if anything needs to be revised. In addition, certain life events, such as marriage, divorce, death, or relocation should trigger a more immediate review of your Will.

 

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Larry Parman, Estate Planning Attorney, Author, Speaker
Larry Parman, Estate Planning Attorney, Author, Speaker
Founder and Owner at Parman & Easterday
Larry Parman's dad died at 56 in a farm accident with no estate plan. His family spent two years fighting the IRS and nearly three years in probate. That experience became Larry's life work.

Since founding Parman & Easterday in 1985, Larry has led over 1,000 free, community-service education programs and helped more than 10,000 Oklahoma families go from putting off their estate plan to getting it done. His goal for every client is the same: to become the person their family calls "the one who took care of everything."

Larry is the author of three books: The Straight Shooter's Guide to Estate Planning; Estate Planning Basics; and Guiding Those Left Behind in Oklahoma. He served as Oklahoma's Secretary of State and Secretary of Commerce, and his firm is the only member of the American Academy of Estate Planning Attorneys in the state.
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